I want to start off with saying that I have the most beautiful child and I love "S" with all my heart but her father "D" is another story all together. To start off we have no court agreements and I hope we never do. I live in the state of Ohio so there is no way unless I marry for him to give up his rights which sucks butt. "D" is the most shelfish person I have meet. We had originally agreed to have open visits in which he could see our child whenever he'd like within means of course for example giving a call to make sure we are home. First, He took of when "S" was 3 months old and showed back up when she was about to reach 6 months all because I refused his advances toward a relationship. Am I really supposed to take that kind of shit? Needless to say we had a long talk about taking off like that agreeing on visits at least once every 31 days. He missed this requirement about 3 times before I said my first "NO" to visitation. Once I came up with a visit schedule that he agreed to the visits resumed. In our written parenting plan it was clearly written down the days and times of visits and that the parenting plan was void if he missed any days for lack of participation. "D" was consistently late for our child's drop off even though he had 40 minutes to be ready after work and always late dropping her off including one night when he was late by 3 hours. Then about a week ago ( four weeks after agreement was made and visitation resumed) he missed a visit. So now the plan is voided but he keeps bugging me about visits. Someone please tell me why he is not getting it? "S" needs a father that is stable, supportive, and physically there for her. I can't tell you how pissed off I am about the whole situation. I can't seem to convey the importance of his presence and it pisses me off even more when he makes excuses about how he works. I work at a minimum of 45 hours per week and he can't find a couple of hours out of his 40 hour week to visit with our child? Really? I can't do this anymore! I really don't want to see my baby hurt by his neglectful ways and my poor baby crying as she starts to realize "daddy" don't really care. The only thing I have ever asked of him was to be therefor "S". Am I crazy for being so mad because I seem to be the only one who has this point of view.
Hi y'all I'm new to this community. and I thought I say I absolutely hate my parents I mean if I woke up and found them both dead this would make me legitimately happy, though this has not always been the case. a little about this I was adopted at age 15 I'm 23 now and thing were going alright till I started my second or third year of college. They have taken away every single shred of Independence or dignity from me. I am not allowed a cell phone, or a drivers license, or a car or a relationship with the opposite sex, or even a job. I sit at home do homework and stare at the four walls. I have few to know friends and even if I did I'm not allowed to go do anything with them. oh and the best thing is that all of my brothers and sisters have all these privileges.
My mom and dad are getting a divorce.He will be out of the house in a matter of days and everything will be final.I'm really really getting tired of being so depressed.It isn't any better at work, cause not only is mom talking to my manager about the whole mess but my manager is bothering me about it.The day my mother told me I was a mess. I was very upset and I really just needed comfort.Mom had to leave later that day to go to a meeting for the new library. Well once she left my manager couldn't wait to get her claws into me. She walked over to my desk and started asking fucking stupid questions like, "How do you feel about this? Will you ever want to see the other woman?" And also I should note right now that my dad got another girl pregnant, so she goes as far as to ask, "When the child gets older do you think you will ever be curious and want to talk to him or her?"Who the fuck does she think that she is to preach to me and ask me those dumb questions?Oh yeah and lets not forget that I complained to my mom about her bugging me and she didn't do a damn thing. Well she did but it didn't help any. She told my manager to knock it off.... it just went over her head. She doesn't give a shit, she loves to stir up drama.She kisses my dad's ass so fucking hard.. I wouldn't be surprised if she was the other woman all along.Going back to my dad now, he has been NOW trying to build up a better relationship with me and my brother.. after how many years? 29 for me and 25 for my brother? He is always gone out working and doing god knows what, oh yes, I know.. FUCKING OTHER WOMEN.Ugh, I do have lots more to say on this topic but I am really angry right now and I'm hungry.I do need someone to listen to me though. I'm so sad.
Opaloctober is back in Breastfeeding.
*sigh* I just can't.
http://parenting101.livejournal.com/6972783.html?view=180153199#t180153199My husbands a tool and thinks my 4yr old dressing like a girl means hes gay! HALP ME P101!
http://www.statesman.com/blogs/content/shared-gen/blogs/austin/courts/entries/2011/04/04/mom_gets_25_years_for_smearing.html?cxntcid=breaking_newsFinally some justice for little Dakota!
Did someone get a cap of that silverloonwolf booj post?? Apparently something epic went down and I was involved AND I MISSED IT BECAUSE I DON'T GET COMMENTS EMAILED.
Is it just me or does this person come across as smug, condescending, passive aggressive, validation-seeking and thus very odd. . .http://community.livejournal.com/attachedparents/1526503.htmlOk, her baby self-weaned at 6 months? Is that even possible? Perhaps it is, I just can't fathom how. . .and her baby, now at 11 months sleeps 12-13 hrs a night and then gets a sippy cup, with water?! That doesn't seem right at all. Oh yes, when he does wake up during his sleep period for a diaper change she has to mention that she uses cloth. Not that it's the point of the post or anything, just to let us all know . ..But she is not writing to the community about any of that, just mentions it in part of her three paragraph foreword before "saluting" parents that try really hard to co-sleep -- she feels so sad for them.. . .but then she asks, why make such an effort to co-sleep? Why bother? Is this person for real?edited to add: ( text of postCollapse )
so teawithfrodo went batshit and called someone at work... and from what i gather from anon communities this isn't the first time?? anyone have deets on this? also, anon, dare accepted!